Give and Take

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“People commonly use statistics like a drunk uses a lamp post; for support rather than illumination.” (Mark Twain)

When most people think about philanthropy, they envision cash donations or planned giving from stocks. But what about real estate? For donors looking to make a lasting impact, Realty Gift Fund (RGF) is leading the way in transforming real estate assets into significant charitable contributions. Realty Gift Fund (RGF) is a qualified 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, meaning it is a charitable organization that is eligible to receive tax-deductible donations; its primary focus is facilitating the donation of real estate to other non-profit organizations. We sat down with Jay Grab, one of RGF’s experts, to discuss how the organization simplifies these complex transactions and amplifies donors’ legacies.

When I was a kid, I had to write prompt, heartfelt thank-you notes to anyone who sent me a gift—even when it was my aunt who just passed away, who always sent me the same thing: a pair of Argyle dress socks. As Mom used to say, “They took the time to think about you and send you a gift. You can take the time to say thank you.”

Originally published: November 15, 2009 Déjà Vu All Over Again: 2008 Meets 2024 Back in 2008, the economy was in free fall. Nonprofits were panicking. Donor confidence had tanked. I wrote a piece that year urging fundraisers not to pull back on their year-end appeals. I argued that during downturns—especially during downturns—it’s more important than ever to stay visible and keep asking. Well, here we are again. 2024 wasn’t exactly a picnic either. Inflation remained stubborn. The markets shook confidence. Foundations tightened their grantmaking. And many nonprofits started singing that same old tune: “Let’s skip the year-end appeal this year.” If this sounds familiar, it should. What’s scarier than a red-tinted investment statement? Writing to your donors in an uncertain economy. Asking for support when wallets are shrinking. Worrying you might come across as tone-deaf or pushy. But let me tell you what I said back then—because it still applies

Owners of luxury motor coaches and RVs, such as Marathon Coaches and other high-end brands, can have the best of both worlds: a vacation with all the comforts of home, and an opportunity to shape their philanthropic legacy that also provides a current charitable tax deduction.

Several times a year, I get emails or phone calls from clients excited about the latest buzz in planned giving marketing. It usually starts with something like this: “Have you seen the new Widget that Company B just launched? It practically guarantees donors will be knocking down our door. My boss thinks we should buy it. Why don’t you offer something like this?” I’ve been in this industry long enough to know what’s coming next. The “Widget” is rarely—if ever—something revolutionary. It’s usually just a repackaging of an existing concept with a fresh coat of paint. A “New” Twist on Old Tools These so-called groundbreaking tools often fall into predictable categories: A “new” planned giving calculator that estimates annuity payments and tax benefits. (Didn’t we already have a dozen of those?) An app for making monthly recurring gifts—essentially a more streamlined version of existing donation platforms. A pre-designed eblast template